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Friday 21 June 2013

Quote of The Week

Gracious Rain


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"Rain is grace; rain is the sky descending to the earth; without rain, there would be no life."  -John Updike
 

If it's raining in any part of the world you are just as it's in Lagos, just enjoy the blessing it will bring.
 
Do have a fulfill weekend!
 
Ciao......

Thursday 6 June 2013

A Year Journey on Blogger

 
I can't believe it's 365 days that I started  blogging, just as we say "how time flies".
 
Starting was a big issue because I had no idea what Carrefour should look like, I had so many ideas on my head but somehow I knew I must start something and finally I started with so many checks on different blogs from Linda Ikeji's blog to A wandering Sole and many more blogs.
 
To all the bloggers that have inspired me with their spectacular blog designs I must thank you for not minding my copycat habit of your wonderful ideas.
 
I just can't stop thanking my mentors who have encouraged me to nurture this new found love, Big Oji, my classy editor, how can I forget the late Mr. Amadi Ogbonnaya aka Ogbuefi of the universe, entertainment editor of class, my friend and big brother Mr. Innocent, my original Ibo brother, Halim Mohammed my impromptu editor, my Aboki to sure and Olukay thank you for not mind my pestering you to read my post.
 
It has not been rosy but it has been quite interesting journey.
 
There are days I don't have any idea of what to write about  and some days ideas flow freely. Can you imagine, I'm behaving like my journalist friends because I see everything around me now as a potential story material.
 

Monday 3 June 2013

........Good Night Compatriots

Photo credit : Wallcoo.net


Dear Compatriots,
 
It exactly a year since you all left this world.
 
I do not have any close friend or relative among you but I do know some of your friends, I have met a parent who told me he lost two wonderful God fearing children in the ill-fated Dana crash on Sunday June 3, 2012. You were all our compatriots, so in away you were our families.
 

Wednesday 29 May 2013

Happy Democracy Day Nigerians



We all know that our great nation Nigeria is bleeding from corruption, bad governance, injustice and mediocrity right now. One Nigerian is dying every one hour in the north because of political laced religious militancy being faced by millions of our brothers and sisters.

Thousands have being killed and nothing serious is done by the authority to bring the perpetrators to book.

I'm one of the schools of thought that believe May 29 should never be our democracy day; I believe June 12 is a better option.

Because it was a day that Nigerians across the nation voted not based on their tribe, culture, ethnicity or religious affiliations, many believed that the election was the fairest and freest election we've had in the history of our nation.

June 12 would have been the most justified and ideal day because every Nigerian from the North, South, West or East could identify with HOPE 93 where millions came out to cast their votes for the people's man "MOSHOOD KASHIMAWO OLAWALE ABIOLA" but all their efforts were truncated and many died in the struggle against the military in order to restore true democracy to our land.

At least, if I was too young to understand the intricacies of politics then, now I'm a great student of history because I've learnt alot about Nigeria from the memoirs of Nigerian great historians.

Monday 27 May 2013

Happy Children Day, Angels!

 
Being a child, what a wonderful world of existence.
To all my lovely angels from Lagos, Nairobi, London, Abuja, Port-Novo, Abidjan, Lome, Dakar, Accra, Paris, Chicago, Quebec, Johannesburg, Cape Town and from all over the world.
Happy Children Day!
 

Friday 24 May 2013

Hijab, The Pride of a Muslimah





It all started when a principal in Lagos, Nigeria flogged a junior secondary 1 student 43 times for wearing Hijab in school.
After that incident, Muslim groups and parents petitioned the Lagos state government and before any one could say jack, the commissioner for education Mrs. Olayinka Oladunjoye announced that the use of Hijab and head scarf for Muslim women would not be allowed in Lagos state public schools.
She said, they came to this conclusion after they had dialogued with many stakeholders who included Muslim student delegates in a forum chaired by one Alhaji Oyinlomo, the commissioner for Home Affairs and Culture. They agreed at the meeting that students could only use their Hijab when Muslim girls want to go for prayers, read the Quran or when they are going for Jumat prayer on Fridays.
Honourable Commissioner ma'am, can I ask if I'm permitted to ask you some few questions?
Ma, who is Alhaji Oyinlomo and how grounded is Alhaji's in Islamic knowledge?
Who are the stakeholders and can you please give us their names and which organization they represent?
What is the state's position on child abuse or is 45 strokes of cane not enough to be tagged child abuse?
Where is the principal that committed the heinous act against an innocent girl who was obeying the laws of her religion which was not in any way against the constitution of Nigeria?
Will the principal be ever charged to court for gross misconduct on duty and threat to the students under her care?

Having asked you the above questions, I need to make this clear to you and the state government, why an average covering Muslimah hold the HIJAB and Head scarf esteem as their pride and identity of showing who they truly are.

Friday 10 May 2013

Inspirational Funmi Iyanda

Funmi Iyanda covers Genevieve's May edition

If you are a Nigerian, calling a lady that is not biologically related to one an aunty will not take you by surprise.
 
Aunty Funmi Iyanda as I call her has inspired me a great deal, watching her rested program "New Dawn with Funmi" on  the Nigeria Television Authority (NTA) then  as an undergraduate throughout my university years has given meaning to my womanhood.
 
She covers the May edition of Genevieve magazine.
 
This is sure beautiful. 

Thursday 9 May 2013

PORTicracy


 
PORTicracy!  I know you’re already searching your dictionary for the meaning of my big lexicon. Sorry to disappoint you, because you won’t get it in any dictionary not even the encyclopedia will help with the meaning, oh yes, I mean it.

Before you go ahead to label me an Olodo who does not understand the English lexicon, please I will crave your indulgence to accept my own Oyinbo at least for the sake of this post.

I think I should face you straight if you think that I do not have the right like Prof. Wole Soyinka to create my own word.  May be this question will calm you down a bit, “can’t I use any word I like?” after all everyone should be free by right to say anything he or she wants as far as it is not libel or slander.

With my PORTicracy you can’t sue me for any of the above, I’m only exercising my freedom of speech and thought.

With the introduction of Mobile Number Portability (MNP) by the Nigeria Communication Commission recently and the launching of Saka’s porting campaign by one of the communication companies, the word port and porting has just been added to our everyday lexicon and its usage has totally been accepted across the country.



Thursday 2 May 2013

Beautiful May!

 
Be fruitful in this beautiful month of May.
 
Photo credit: Flickr
 
I don't know about you but I love this month because it's synonymous to examinations and exams are everywhere around us. If you don't like reading just look forward to another month 'cos this month might not just be for  you. If you a bookie then just enjoy the blessings of reading.
 
Worker's day is in May. Please don't tell my boss that I looooove holidays, at least I know he can't give me any task  on May day.
 
Workers all over the world,  please take my kisses and hugs as I wish you all........
"HAPPY WORKERS' DAY!".
The sad reality in Nigeria now is that many workers are been laid off without good benefit. What more can wish for on this May Day than for Nigeria Labour Congress (NLC) to fight for rights  for our comrades.
Celebration of Work force

May I welcome you to the month when rainfall announces its arrival, so plenty of rain. I love rain because the coldness that comes with it, is a true blessing. Green vegetables are abound everywhere and they come very cheap this season.
Guess what, Vegetarians are smiling already****
 
Fruitfulness at its fullest
I know quite a lot of my friends do not like mango*****winky winky, at least I can enjoy my sumptuous mango without anyone begging for a cut. My dinner is fix for the next two months.
 
If you're like me "a mango lover" you'll definitely sure have plenty to eat. 

 
Children are also celebrated throughout the world 'cos it's their month. I love children. I promise to take my niece whose birthday is in this month out and together we'll have massive fun.
 
We Nigerians will also celebrate our country's democracy day, so two days holiday in MAY. I hope(the boss) is not reading this.
 
It's also one month countdown to my one year anniversay as a blogger , this a big one for me.
 I'm so soooo exicited.
 
Let do great things together this MAY.
 
Bisous!!!'
 
Laraeni

Thursday 25 April 2013

A Little Prayer


God, I'm very thankful for all the experiences of life that You have taken me through. I just want to communicate with God right now with this my little prayer.
 
I'm really bless because God has not forsaken me in an condition and I'm indebted to Him for this.
 
Please join me as I say my little prayer.
 
Dear God;
Please give me the grace to fulfil Your will;
Give me the courage to be trustworthy;
Enhance me with Your wisdom;
Give me the spirit and energy to be successful;
Lord, give me the opportunity to be fulfilled and contented;
Thank you Lord for the gift of FREEDOM
Good health and sound mind;
For the good food and wonderful people You surrounded me with;
Thank you my dear God for being very glorious.
 
Amen!!!!!!
 
I'm in the praying mode, I guess you can look back at your journey and also say your own little prayers.
 
As you also pray, I say Amen because I know He's watching over you. The One that watches over us never sleeps or slumbers.
 
So,no matter what the journey is like, stay focus and hold on to your faith.
 
God bless our souls, Amen!


 

Wednesday 24 April 2013

High Standards In Relationships


"I Have High Standards" Is Good For A Relationship

"I have high standards" is often believed to be an excuse for why someone cannot find a partner and is not in a relationship.
But maybe "I have high standards" should be a requirement for all relationships.

I believe our expectations of others, including our partners, has gotten too low -- we accept, compromise, and settle when we shouldn't.

We attract and get the behavior from others that we accept. Let's set our standards high and raise the expectation of appropriate behavior in our lives. We all benefit from having to rise to higher standards.
 
I love this, I think everyone in relationship should use this as guide.

Friday 19 April 2013

The Rotten Generation

 


Hello people I'm sorry this is coming a bit late, it's just a slow moving wheel trying to clog my movements. From court to jail, I'll give you the details of my five days journey to Kirikiri "The  Federal Republic of Freedom."

 Just check back on the blog to see the beautiful, the ugly and gory sides of Kirikiri.

Now to this gist I've to tell you, let get down to d'affaire du jour.

How can you total blame professor Wole Soyinka for calling my generation a wasted one, when the level of indiscipline among the youth is worst than what the older generations currently  display.

In the past few days I've witnessed what will make me not agree more with the professor that we are all in terrible mess especially within my generation and the ones after mine.

My mind has not rested since these events that I'm about to relay to you.

I'm so troubled that I'm wondering why the current political shenanigans will not be right when we accused them of their sit-tight rule attitude and they will gladly tell whoever cares to listen that mine generations lack leadership qualities and that we are worse off than them.

 They said they can't in any way trust us with power. Do you blame them, huuuuh!!!!!!

I was in one of the banks around my office on the first Tuesday after the just concluded Easter holiday, the queue was long and pressure on the cashiers was hectic.

Just as we queued for us to take our turns to be attended to, a young man said he was not ready to queue because he needed to pay his money in at least 25 minutes and leave the bank.

A young man just of his age was bold enough to tell him that if we truly want Nigeria to be good and Nigerians to be taken serious by the outside world, the youth must be to be the engine of change. I never knew I've not heard the worse from the un-repentance young lad who proudly said Nigeria is destroy and he's not ready to be an apostle of change. He said if he's giving the opportunity of leadership tomorrow he will not only go there to loot the national treasury but he will also take national cake for his three generations.

I was shamed for his uncivilized utterances, in that shame I left the banking hall after my transaction without any comment. I guess I was too dismal to any word. But the thought of the scenarios was in my head for many days.

Where’s the responsibility of trust, I guess this young man is a fresh graduate who will probably be scouting for an employment in a financial house. His guarantors must better watch their backs. #just a warning!



Monday 8 April 2013

My Best Quotes from Iron Lady


 
Margaret Hilda Thacher (Baroness Thatcher) was widely known with her sobriquet "THE IRON LADY" which was given to her by a soviet journalist. She was the United Kingdom's Prime Minister and was the first and the only woman to have held the post.
 
She became popular with her uncompromising politics and leadership style, the style which was known as Thatcherism.
 
I'm looking at a woman who has changed the world politics and also defined the role of women as  a wife and administrator.
 
Below, I share some of her many quotes that I love.
 
"What is success? I think it is a mixture of having a flair for the thing that you are doing;
knowing that it is not enough, that you have got to have hard work
 and a certain sense of purpose."
 
"Disciplining yourself to do what you know is right and important,
although difficult, is the highroad to pride, self-esteem,
 and personal satisfaction."
 
"If you want something said, ask a man;
if you want something done,
ask a woman."
"I just owe everything o m y father and it's passionately interesting for the things that
I learnt in a small town, in a very modest home,
are the things that I have won the election."
 
"If you set out to be liked, you would be prepared
to compromise  on anything at any time,
and you would achieve nothing."

"I usually make up my mind
about a man in ten seconds, and
I very rarely change it."
"There can be no liberty unless there is economic liberty."
 
Baroness Thatcher passed on at the age of 87 on April 8, 2013 in London after suffering a stroke. Lord Bell, Thatcher's spokesman, confirmed her death.

 

Rest in peace Margaret Thatcher.

Friday 5 April 2013

Get Well Soon Madiba


Photo credit: ONE
Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela is a South African anti-apartheid activist, revolutionary and politician who served as President of South Africa from 1994 to 1999, the first to be elected in a fully representative, multiracial election.

He is an inspiration to millions of  young Africans and youths around the world.

I adore Madiba and he is my numero un living legend.

I join the rest of the world to wish you a speedy recovery.

Long live Madiba!

Thursday 4 April 2013

A Date With The Reuters


Angela Ukomadu and my humble self



Angela replied me just after my initial reply and voila we made arrangements on how we are going to set the ball rolling for me to talk about our almighty gidi_traffic because the  person behind the handle refuse to show his face and he does not want to grant any interview. -Gidi_taffic is our Lagbaja of social media but Angie, don't worry I will get the prayer warriors to get into prayer session that will make Gidi change his/her mind about it.
 
It all started like any other day on twitter, my addiction to gidi_traffic is second to none because with this twitter handle there are no dull moments as you get your traffic updates reading through all sorts of funny questions and responses from tweeps.
 
From my conversation with Angela, I later found out she is a stringer with the Reuters.
 
I did a story on Gidi-traffic earlier on the blog if you miss it, oh never late click Gidi_traffic.
 



Wednesday 27 March 2013

Quote of the Week

"Leading is easy; the hard part is persuading others to follows." - Ulysses S. Grant

Photo credit: www.wearethepractitioners.com
Ulysses S. Grant was the 18th President of the United States (1869–1877) and with his successful role as a war general in the second half of the Civil War, he must have encountered lot of problems and hardship leading his troupes but his credible act of persuasion must have paid off.
 
Nigerian leaders should not see Nigerians as bad and uncultured followers, all they simply need to do it persuade the citizens with good policies and ideologies.
 
Voila, I'm very sure they will be stunned on our they will influence us to act to bring out Nigeria to an enviable position amongst comity of nations.
 
Get people to act anywhere you find yourself.
 

Tuesday 19 March 2013

Incredible Dependable Gidi Traffic














If you're on the Tweeter and you've not seeing this eagle eye's symbol or some tweets similar to these above then you're on a very long thing.

I'm less than six months old on twitter but one of the twitter handle I joined by accident in my first week was @gidi_traffic, guess what I'm loving every moment with @gidi_traffic.
 

@gidi_traffic is a combination of two words, Gidi which stands for Lasgidi is a pseudonyms for Lagos, Nigeria and it’s called by young Lagosians and the traffic. So combination of the two is @gidi_traffic.

Lagos is the most populous city in Africa and it's synonymous with traffic gridlock especially during early morning rush which is usually between 7am to 10am and closing time which usually starts from 4pm and sometimes can stretch to 10pm depending on how busy the city is.

@gidi_traffic has come to conquer the nightmares associated with Lagos traffic. It has helped with the city traffic management by giving adequate traffic report and tweets from @gidi_traffic's followers and the handler. Sometime giving traffic rules and advice.

Though the identity of @gidi_traffic handler remains a misery to its follower because of the prompt attention giving to the handle, the retweets are also within minute of tweeting a topic or question. Some its followers sometimes ask if it is a machine robot or a computer program. I'm also surprise because there is no time you will not get a retweet from @gidi_traffic even in the middle of the night.

What amaze me about @gidi_traffic is that many subjects from marital to science and many more issues that ought to be goggled are also being asked on the handle, I call @gidi_traffic Gidipedia because of the questions that sometime Wikipedia cannot answer will handle by our beloved @gidi_traffic.

From the interview @gidi_traffic granted OMG Nigeria in 2012, an online magazine shows that after all it's a human that is behind the handle. This anonymous handler calls himself Kaptin Idoko.

@gidi_traffic won the award for Best Use of New Media at the Future Awards in 2012. I must also commend the incredible efforts of @gidi_traffic Tweeps who give minute by minute reports of their location from Lagos to Port-Harcourt, from Suleja to Ibadan for being good agents of change

With this singular effort of @gidi_traffic aka Kaptin Idoko I believe there is a better day for Nigeria someday soon. Whoever says Nigerians are not patriotic should see the zeal with which Nigerians are helping a worthy cause to grow. We only need a real project and voila we are fully at your back.

For me and many young up-mobile Nigerians, @gidi_traffic is truly incredible dependable friend.

Wednesday 13 March 2013

Presidential Penkelemesi





To the average new generation political enthusiasts in Nigeria, they may not be familiar with the word "Penkelemisi" a world used by so many people, imagine some young Nigerians think the word is a brand name of some sorts.

 
Penkelemesi is a Yorubanization of the word PECULIAR MESS, a pre-independent famous Ibadan politician late Gbadamosi Adegoke Adelabu used the word to described the opposition in the Western Region House of Assembly at that time. Not understanding what he meant, the non-literate section of his audience translated the phrase into vernacular as "penkelemesi".

 
Presidential (State) pardon is an executive order vacating a conviction. It's not an abominable act of any sorts because the constitutions of many countries including Nigeria give the president the power to grant clemency. It can be in the form of any of the following;
-grant a full pardon,
-to commute a sentence and,
-or to rescind a fine.

 
On Tuesday, March 13, 2013, President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan granted ex-Governor DSP Alamieyeseigha and seven others state pardon on the advice of the council of state.

 
I do not have personal grouse with state pardon especially knowing fully well it is done in other parts of the world and because sometimes judgement can't be biased or a fellow who commit an offence can change for good after or during their states' punishments.

 
Having gone through the state pardon documents under the current president of the United States of America Barack Obama, I noticed that the fellows granted state pardons were all found guilt and convicted by the United States’ courts. Guess what, they all finished their terms without any option of a fine.

 
The first state pardon done under Obama's administration was on December 3, 2010 with 10 sentences ranging from 1972 to 1991.

 
The second state pardon was done on May 20, 2011, with eight sentences ranging from 1975 to 1985. The third was done in November 21, 2011 with five sentences.

 
The last till date was on March 1, 2013 with 10 sentences and one commutations of sentence which was given to Eugenia Marie Jennings who was sentenced in 2001 to 262 months (about 22 years) in prison, 8 years of supervised release and with $1,750 fine.



Friday 8 March 2013

Happy Women's Day

Photo credit: www.flickr.com
 

You can break down a real woman temporarily but a real woman will always pick up the pieces, rebuild herself and come back even stronger than ever. -Unknown
 
Happy women's day to all the wonderful women out there who have impacted into the life of someone to build their dream for their better today.
 
How can I ever forget my own special lady who crafted and molded my way to being a real woman.

Late Mrs. Eunice Towobola Banjo, she was my a beautiful, adorable, energetic, industrious and God fearing Ijebu woman. She was a grandma one will pay billion of dollar to have, I truly adore her especially now that I'm gaining from all the good things she taught me. Though, then I thought she was the most wicked grandmother in the whole world, some times I asked my cousins if she was truly my grandma.
 
She instilled discipline into me, whatever I am today was all her efforts and with  the help of God on her side. She single handedly trained me with some financial and moral supports from my biological parents. she was the parent I knew, because she adopted me at age one from my parent.

Grandma, may God always bless your soul.
 



"I knew my mother was a good person, a wonderful person, but I didn't know to what extent until people came to me and told me things from the heart." Velma  Evans

 


Wednesday 6 March 2013

Giving - Quote of the day

"There must be a reason why some people can afford to live well. They must have worked for it. I only feel angry when I see waste. When I see people throwing away things that we could use." - Mother Teresa


I've always love to put smiles on the faces of  vulnerable people out there especially when they can't see me to tell me thank you for any of my little efforts. I like it better when God rewards me. (my little secret of happiness).
 
Giving in Africa was communal in the eras of our grandmothers and mothers but with civilization on our lapses now, every man is for himself and propably his immediate families.
 
We prefer to show our aggrandize by wastage, in any society where the poor and needy are not catered for, crime is usually the order of the day. I guess we all can testify to this in Nigeria.

Charity breeds goodwill
 
Charity and any act of giving (not bad gifts that can't be useful to the receivers) breed love and brotherhood. Gift most time is the real lubricant of friendship.

Rules of Giving

(Photo credit:sugarbeecrafts.com)
 
Remember that every action in life has rules governing it, so giving also has its own rule. According to sugarbeecrafts, above are five rules of giving. I truly love them.
 
Always remember that, giving will always be an old act but CAN NEVER BE OUT OF FASHION.
 
Till my next post, strech out your hands with a gift  of  love and hugs.